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Hi I'm
Bonnie Rae

I’m a psychodynamic psychotherapist with 14 years of clinical experience, an EMDR practitioner, an ISTDP therapist, a clinical supervisor, and the founder of Rae Therapy Group. My vision for Rae Therapy Group began with a desire to create an affirming space for depth-oriented therapists committed to doing deeper, more meaningful work in Pasadena, Northeast Los Angeles, and surrounding California communities.

I provide trauma-informed, culturally sensitive care to individuals and couples across a wide range of identities and life experiences. I have expertise in supporting clients navigating the demands of the entertainment industry, as well as challenges related to relationships, sexuality, identity, grief, anxiety, depression, trauma, creative blocks, codependency, love addiction, chronic pain and illness, infertility, queer family planning, parenting, intimacy, and self-worth.

I approach my work with attunement, curiosity, warmth, intuition, and sometimes humor, while offering thoughtful challenge to foster growth. Paying close attention to both what is spoken and unspoken, and attuning to the subtle somatic cues held within your body, we caringly and safely move beneath defenses, allowing deeper emotional experiences to emerge at a pace that honors you and your goals. My work is rooted in the belief that transformation unfolds not only through insight but through the profound healing and reparative nature of a strong and genuine therapeutic relationship.

It is my greatest honor to be trusted to see and hold all parts of you.

Education

  • Master’s in Clinical Psychology with a Specialization in LGBT Psychology, Antioch University, 2013
  • Los Angeles Gay & Lesbian Center – Therapist Traineeship, 2012 – 2013
  • Village Counseling and Wellness, DBT Center – Therapist Associateship – 2014
  • Mindfulness & DBT Skills Groups for Adults & Teens

Trainings & Certifications

  • Bonnie Rae, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, #91089
  • LGBT Specialization Certification, Antioch University
  • Attachment Focused ISTDP – 3 Year Training, with The ISTDP Learning Centre (currently ongoing)
  • Attachment Focused EMDR, The Personal Transformation Institute
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples Externship, Taught by Silvina Irwin
  • Sexuality and Intimacy with Couples Workshop, Taught by Esther Perel
  • The State of Affairs: A Clinical Approach to Infidelity Workshop, Taught by Esther Perel
  • Family and Couples Workshop, Taught by Gottman, Gottman, Johnson and Lerner
  • How the Body Releases Trauma/Somatic Experiencing Workshop, Taught by Peter Levine
  • The Body Keeps Score Workshop, Taught by Bessel Van Der Kolk
  • Buddhist Psychology: The Heart and Essence Workshop, Taught by Jack Kornfield
  • Memory Rescue Workshop, Taught by Daniel Amen
  • The Significance of Attachment Science for Psychotherapy Workshop, Taught by Sue Johnson & Dan Siegel
  • Childhood Traumatic Grief Certification

Specialties

I bring nearly 15 years of experience in private practice, working with individuals in the entertainment industry and across LGBTQ+ communities. I use an attachment-based lens when providing psychodynamic therapy, ISTDP (Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Therapy), EMDR therapy, and EFT (Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy).

Fees 

Individual Therapy
50-minute Session
$300
Couples/Family Therapy
50-minute Session
$320

 

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